8招教你从职场剩女中突围

女人只分两种：Smart ornotSmart。女人虽“剩”却不忘自我营销，懂得暗香盈袖的女人味才是优势，才能从“剩女”中突围。
　　
　　1、高雅但不矫情
　　
　　什么女人让男人怕？矫情的女人。什么女人尤其让男人怕？把矫情当高雅并乐此不疲的女人。偏偏这又是两个容易被混淆的概念。简要的说，高雅的女人不但喜欢手持高脚杯飘逸在鸡尾酒会之中，她也同样可以拎着易拉罐啤酒流连于海鲜大排档。而那些没有烛光就不叫晚餐的女士，恐怕还有得“剩”。
　　
　　2、自信而不自我
　　
　　这是一种潜移默化的舒适。比如汽车即将驶入高速公路收费站，而他的两手既要抓着方向盘，又要忙着降下车窗，这时身边的女人体贴地递上数目合适的零钱，让他不至于太手忙脚乱，他就会感到这种舒适了。
　　
　　没人要你俯首贴耳，只不过在他不方便时提供一点方便而已。男人结婚，是为了得到一个默契的生活拍档。如果觉得袖手旁观天经地义，那么没问题，高傲的孤独也是一种境界。
　　
　　3、诱人而不缠人
　　
　　见过马戏团演出吗？无论是聪明的大象还是憨态可掬的黑熊，都会在完成表演后得到一块喜欢的糖果或者小点心。驯兽师是务实的，他明白要想让这些庞然大物乖巧听话，糖果比鞭子更有效。如果没完没了地驱使，累人倒在其次，熊脾气上来还有可能罢工。
　　
　　对男人也一样，吸引永远比督促管用。多展示你的魅力，少索取他的承诺，天天缠着他只会让他压力过载。如果认为还是缠着保险，也无妨，这里的区别仅仅是自信二字。

    4、执著而不偏执
　　
　　等待一个男人，他在人格上尊重你、在责任上有担当、在物质上不寒酸、在修养上不粗鄙，那么这是执著的“嫁个好男人”。等待一个男人，他要既富有又英俊、既浪漫又专一、既睿智又年轻……那么这是偏执的“非精英不嫁”。这样的完美男人存在吗？也许存在吧？但是他凭什么一定娶你呢？
　　
　　5、学会坚强
　　
　　吸引别人的前提是调整好自己。能够忍受孤独和艰辛才不会急切地寻求陪伴，即使宽厚的肩膀也要辨别之后再依靠。稍有抑郁就寻求依赖和寄托的女人正是花花公子的好猎物。
　　
　　6、学会讨价还价
　　
　　“剩”下了，就不要再幻想。“剩女”面对的男人都是30岁以上的“老油条”。对他们来说，婚姻决不是酸酸甜甜的心跳加速，也许更像一桩生意。那么打情骂俏之余，别忘了谈谈条件！
　　
　　7、学会等待
　　
　　嫁错和不嫁，哪个代价更大？眼看着生日一个个过去，也许有人想收摊大甩卖了吧？刚嫁给“委曲求全”，也许就碰见了“真命天子”，一时寂寞变成一生错过，肠子悔清值得吗？
　　
　　8、学会消遣
　　
　　消遣，但不能被人消遣！身边的男伴也许会让潜在的好男人误会你名花有主，更可能使你一叶障目。一个有分寸、知进退，懂得克制和礼貌，能及时让出位置的隐身“GamePartner”比丈夫还难找。如果耐不住寂寞想消遣，那么不但要坚强，更要找对人。

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那么没问题，高傲的孤独也是一种境界。

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The documents belonged to a senior intelligence official in the Cabinet office and were found by a passenger on a London commuter train Tuesday. The envelope was then passed to the British Broadcasting Corp.
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Two of the assessments were made by the British government's Joint Intelligence Committee. The report on Iraq was commissioned by the Ministry of Defence. The al-Qaida report was commissioned by the Foreign and the Home Offices.
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The intelligence official was still working at the Cabinet office, pending a police investigation.

Britain's Official Secrets Act prohibits the passing of sensitive information that could affect national security.

The BBC said it could not reveal the documents' exact contents after receiving legal advice.

The security assessments often include intelligence material gathered from agents on the ground and could prompt terror cells to change tactics or alert terrorists to British surveillance techniques, according to a British security official who spoke on condition of anonymity because of the sensitivity of the story.

The security breach is the latest in a string of government data losses and comes as Britain pushes for an expansion of its national DNA database — already the largest per capita in the world — and works to finalize plans for an ID program.

"This is just the latest in a long line of serious breaches of security ... further highlighting the most basic failures in this government's ability to maintain our security," said Pauline Neville-Jones of the opposition Conservative party.

A computer containing sensitive details on 600,000 prospective military recruits was snatched from the car of a Royal Navy recruitment officer in central England in January.

The data included details of candidates' religions and some banking records. It was not encrypted.

In another breach, tax officials last year lost computer disks containing information — including banking records — on nearly half the British population.

"There should be strict guidelines about when such secret documents are outside carefully monitored premises," said Chris Huhne with the Liberal Democrats, the third largest opposition party.